Sunday, January 31, 2016

CNY 2016 (1)

Here's just sharing a few pictures of my deco at home. Although most years there were no visitors, I still decorate my home nicely. 

And yesterday evening, we went Chinatown for a short walk. Lynn had a good time, sampling goodies!  The lightings this year is not that pretty..






Mum's newly decorated room

Some cut flowers to dress up the place.


Deco at TPY center.

Yesterday evening heading out to Chinatown. Fancy hairdo for Lynn.

She wrote in her 周记 “人山人海,到处张灯结彩!”





Friday, January 29, 2016

Update

2016 January is coming to an end; time files!!  Before my blog posts become all CNY 2016 related, I shall do an update here with a few photos..

(I) Lynn. 

Pass it on.. There was a conversion on Yap family whatsapp group on CNY clothing.  I think Winny and myself are the top 2 vain-pots, cos seems like only the 2 of us are engaged in that conversation.  Winny commented that Clara can wear the Chinese traditional costumes passed down from Chloe.  I scanned through FB and blog to see what the kids in our family have been wearing in the past many years.  Saw quite a few photos, of items passed down from one cousin to another.  Anyway, this one photo is my favourite while I was browsing, so I shall post it here.  Lynn was 2 years, 3 months here, quite many months older than Clara who is 18 months now.  I wonder where this piece (of clothing) is now....


Long hair.. She started P1 and P2 with need-to-tie\-up shoulder length hair, which was cut short a few weeks into the school year because she was not ready for long hair yet (untidy, sweating, not cleaning properly, not that interested, etc).  Finally, she was ready in P3, and thus, for most part of P3 her hair was long.  Now, at the start of P4, it has reached the longest length thus far.  I'm not intending to let it grow longer.  Here 2 photos of weekend, slightly more fanciful hairstyle.  The joy of having daughter!




 
The minister said "Every school is a good school".  There's a lot of sarcasticism on social media on his comment.  The education system is not perfect, but parents are as much at fault as the policy makers in creating the problems in this system.  

Lynn's school conducted it's first briefing session for parents last weekend.  In the past 3 years, there were only 2 sessions, one in April (AY and AS), and one in May (PTM), which I find very useful.    This year, it created one more in January, such that the sharing about the focus of that academic year (AY) is discussed in January instead of in April.  This also means that the April session this year will fully concentrate on the academic syllabus (AS).   This is definitely another improvement from the school.  I'm very appreciative of the efforts of the school and teachers, such that I sent a thank-you cum encouragement chat-message to Lynn's form teacher (Ms Chua).  Lynn's very lucky to get 2 good form teachers in P1/P2 and P3/P4.  Having the same form teachers 2 years in a row is also a great feature in her school.  I missed the parent teacher meeting (PTM) session with Ms Chua last year, and this year I'm determined not to miss it! 

As far as my experience goes, this neighbourhood school is a good school.  As long as parents make the effort to engage the school.  Although she is in the top 2 classes, the attendance of parents for this session is only <50%.  I wonder if those who did not turn up were engaged in more important stuff (like I was away on biz trip last year PTM)?  I wonder if they are the ones/not the ones who pass sarcastic comments about the system?  

Here's an article for reading pleasure.  This is a great article; I think I will put up a separate posting when I'm free, to discuss my views on this article (read the interesting comments to this article too)
http://hedgehogcomms.blogspot.sg/2016/01/when-students-in-top-schools-dont-make.html

(23 Jan, 2016.  It was Mr. Wong the VP who gave the briefing this year.  I like his straight to the point style.  Err, ok he is not in this pic). 

While sitting in her classroom last Sat (listening to Ms Chua feeling a bit bored), I saw this very familiar looking watering can :).  Took a photo, and chatted with Lynn about it at home.  She told me that she did a great job last year when she was the environmental monitor.  This year, because the EM is not really doing a decent job, so she actually took care of the plants even when she's no longer the EM.

Recognised this as her work (pasted at the back of the classroom) too, because of the stickers :)

Many kids in her class (about 15) were selected as prefect this year.  So I wonder if it is to give them a chance to learn about leadership, and if there will be more stringent selection next year?
(She wore her band as she was on duty last Wed)


Our new pet..  Sigh.. my first experience with tortoise.  MIL says that some vendor sell tortoise that is too young, and these tortoises will not survive because they can't feed yet.  I didn't really believe her.  This tortoise which we named "Tiffy", is now about 2 weeks in my home already.  Still alive, but not feeding well.  In fact I have not seen it eat at all.  I wonder if it will die eventually.  Everyday I look at it, I feel sad actually.  Tiffy, please eat..

(II) Office.

Here's a funny story to share about my BD (at office).  There's a colleague in my team (Mov) who shares the same BD as me.  I told him before that he is the first person that I know to share the same BD as me.  But for him, he said he knows a lot of people who share the same BD as him.  This conversation took place probably early last year. 

On my BD (Monday), we were having lunch and I said happy BD to him, but he didn't wish me back.  On Wed or Thurs, we were having lunch in canteen, and he asked me if my BD is on 19 or 20 Jan, because he thought that one of his friend's BD "story" (not sure but he thinks it's me) is that it is on the "cut-off" between Capricorn and Aquarius.  I told him definitely it's his other friend's "story", because the "story" that we exchanged was about "sharing same BD".  This sweet young chap must be extremely embarrassed by this conversation, that he bought me a BD cake that afternoon (he sneak out of office).  So we had cake that afternoon, and took a group photo. 




Mov will be moving back to Cambodia, and working for another plant within our company's group.  So we had a group lunch yesterday for his farewell.

I also had dinner with SY (together with Eva and LS), who's also a Capricorn. Nowadays it's quite fun and easy in whatsapp chat to send pictures, just to put cheer in someone's day!

Tuesday, January 12, 2016

My day

A mixed bag of feelings on my day. 

It started with a rocky weekend, which eventually ended with a battle solved.  Is winning important?  It should not; there is no winner really in a conflict.  But it builds understanding, right?  Definitely a withdrawal from the emotional bank.  Thus, what a pity, that it occurred so near my birthday.

A couple of well wishes came in throughout the day.  Majority of them are from really old friends.  Some were quite funny.

It still felt like a forgotten day, with no cake in sight.  Planned to go off early, and promised myself to get a present to cheer myself up.

Left at slightly after 6, but the rain means that traffic is worse than usual.  Reached tpy slightly before 730.  A series of exchange with an old friend on whatsapp accompanied me during that half hour of feeling sad. 

Went around, even tried on a colored stone ring. $600... I said to the sales lady that I will think about it.  Kept urging myself to just try 2 more shops.  Finally conceded that, I don't need anything, I don't want anything. I am not an impulsive, not intuitive. And then I thought, A life not lacking, be contented and grateful, one feels blessed! 

WK message me to ask when I will be back; I said soon.  When I reached he was not home yet. Then he came home with a small "cake" when I was having dinner. I am thankful for the though.

Cake, song, and photo time!







Happy bd, SW.  Special thanks to my friends;
~BD gals in Jan:
   the still-so-young-小我一轮 SY;
   my dear roommate (that's what I still call you by nowadays, HS), who is "there for me" when I'm feeling super emo on my special day;
  my "oldest" friend Fish,
~Dia, whose BD I cannot really remember is when liao (sorry!).  Err.. June the 8th isit? (still reading my blog?),
~the Jab Beauties (any of you still reading my blog?),
~and my good and best friends, who celebrate for me yearly:

(9th Jan dinner, and then drinks at my home)


And thanks to my loved ones too; my dear sistas SY & WS, and the Lim family and the Yap family!


 

Wisdom and values

http://brightside.me/article/11-crucial-things-i-do-to-make-my-wife-happy-74355/

Dedicate this article to my dear Lynnette....

Sunday, January 10, 2016

Renovation! Her new room and the other rooms

Ok, so here's her new built in cabinet and study desk! 

I had a hard time drawing the designs for the carpenter.  For the first set of drawings that I gave him, I actually drew the height of the room at 105 inches.  Then he came for discussions and measurements, and I vaguely remember that he said the height is shorter.  So I measured again, updated my drawings (because I made some changes too) to 103inches.  But when he came for the final measurement he said that he would it is only about 101.5 inches.  So it is actually quite challenging doing the design and direct communication with carpenter. 

It mostly turn out as expected.  There were 2 surprises, and here's how they were resolved.  Firstly, the trimmings of the desk, which look slightly pinkish in the photo above, is indeed pinkish/lilac, and not the dark purple that I requested.  The carpenter explained that the trimming is not laminate, but is PVC, which is the usual material for trimming for table, as it can bend for the round corners (which I requested), safer for bodily contact, and does not scratch easily.  So I have came to accept it, and it blends in quite well with light and dark purple.  BTW, the colours were chosen by Lynn, highly sanctioned by me of course. 

Secondly, see the frosted glass with interior-orange cabinet, it has dark purple thick exterior trimmings in the picture here, but it wasn't when it first came.  What came at first was with orange thick exterior trimmings, same colour as the interior.  What I drew/expected was frosted glass doors only with no trimmings at all, and behind the frosted glass is the bright orange interior.  The idea is that the orange will not be on the outside, but will be seen through the frosted glass.  The carpenter explained that it is not quite possible to have no trimming (anyway he thought I wanted exterior orange trimming).  Thus I decided if it is changed to dark purple, then I can accept.  So, he took the doors (there is another one on the other side) back, change the exterior laminate, and came back to fix them the following week. 




The work was completed 2 Saturdays back (2nd Jan), and I took the whole of last weekend (9 and 10th Jan) setting back the items and making protective covers for table top, for both Lynn's room and the study room. 

Here's a close up shot of what Lynn places in the orange cabinet behind the frosted glass, and on the open shelf behind the bed.  There is a power point and a drop down storage space behind the bed and beneath the open shelf, thus hiding wires from view. 

The compliment for my efforts came unexpectedly from Lynn yesterday, when she commented that she likes her new room!  I felt so happy.  My vision of her having her own study desk, like her older cousins, finally came true.  Thus, when I saw her at her desk doing her homework (周记), I took a picture of it.  And the 2 pictures below of her arranging aqua beads were taken on Saturday. 
 
(The lights is a led-strip-light, lined along a U-turn shaped grove built underneath the overhead-L- shaped-open shelf)
 
Here are the populated overhead open shelves.  The room and the house need a new coat of paint (that will be for this year!)
 
This is the white board cum pin board that she requested for.  She asked her daddy to print a copy of her school time table and place it on the board.  We highlighted 3 items- art on Monday (bring art supplies), CCA on Thursday morning (bring apron), and music on Friday last period (bring recorder). 

The purple flower is actually a scotch tape dispenser (new).  The scissor is also a new addition specially for her new study table.  And she actually placed her 2 perfumes in this stationery box on her desk too.  I wonder where's her diary (see first picture on top) when I took this close up picture of her stationery box. 

Here's the other side of the room.  I was not sure if I should put up this set of hanging cabinet, because that would mean 3 sets of cabinet (there is already a 5 doors built-in wardrobe for clothes) in this room.  I was afraid that it will look overwhelming.  It turned out ok, due to good positioning of the furniture and bed.  Now there is ample storage space for Lynn and WK's mum.  There is a rather adequate "open space" in the middle.  Also, finally I can access the window without climbing onto the bed! 
 
See this picture taken on 2nd Jan, when the hooks are still  unoccupied.  See the pictures further down, which show Lynn's other bags (such as tuition and piano) hanging pretty and neatly on the hooks.


 
Here's a final photo of her reading her story book yesterday before bedtime.  This coming weekend, we should get her a chair, and she wants a diffuser too. 

An unexpected pleasant outcome of this renovation is that my mum's room is also revamped!  It suddenly occurred to me that instead of throwing out the 2 pieces of furniture from Lynn's room, I should throw out the bulky and rather useless dressing table set from my old home. 
 
After rearranging the furniture, now this room is not only roomier, my mum has more storage space, the triangle table can be move around easily (next to the bed for example), and (again) we can access the windows!

I put up some 3M hooks for her clothes and bags (next to the window).  There is an empty photo frame (red), which I intend to put this year's Chinese new year photo of my mum with her children and grandchildren. 

Finally, here's the study room.  It was WK who wanted to make this built-in book cabinet.  Again I designed it, to mirror the cabinet which was already there.  It was a bold decision to make light colour; hopefully it will not turn out to be a decision that I will regret!

There are 4 power points on the wall of this open shelf.

This display cabinet has glass door, to keep out dust.

Medal display, purchased from overseas.



Spent $6k ($3.8 for Lynn's and $2.2 for study) on this renovation, actually really heart pain.  I think I will not want to spend large sums on the home again for the next few years. 

This weekend, I will put up the CNY deco, and rearrange some stuff in the living room.  Looking forward to weekend at the start of the week, haha!!

Hopefully, the painting materialize this year, and my house will look like new again!